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Breaking up with a bang
In the world of modern dating, ghosting is no longer acceptable. It’s the practice of completely cutting off all contact with a person with whom you’ve had a brief romantic relationship. But what may have been an easy way to break things off in the past is no longer acceptable.
Show some respect
Ghosting can be hurtful and damaging to a person’s self-esteem. It’s easier just to be honest and communicate that you are not interested in someone rather than simply disappearing. That way, the other person can move on and put his or her energy into finding someone who’s interested.
Risk losing more than a single date
Word spreads fast, and by ghosting someone, you run the risk of losing more than just one date. People have friends, and telling your friends that you intend to treat someone like they’re unworthy of your time and attention is a great way to get a bad reputation.
Ending on a positive note
Respectful, kind endings prepare people better for their next romantic endeavour. In an evolving era of texts and social media, ghosting leads to unclarified conclusions that ultimately leave more grief than emancipation.
Moving on from ghosting
Overall, ghosting is a behavior that should never have been acceptable in the first place. It takes zero effort to text/call someone and end things respectfully that likewise establishes a clear line for your concealed bitterness, opening up the door to happiness with someone who desires to spend time to understand and observe your demands. Instead of taking the easy way out, make it a point to be brave and finish dates positively. It not only saves a lot of heartaches, but it also shows that you values personal integrity, kindness and empathy—values that are important in today’s dating world.
